I receive a fair number of unique questions from photographers via email. It is humbling to be asked some of the question I receive. At my core, I am a photographer just like everyone else working to create stronger images and provide the best client experience I can. I always reply with an honest answer. If I don’t know the answer, I try my best to point the sender in the right direction.
There is a lot of thought that goes in to the messages I receive. The same is true with my answers. I dawned on me the other day many of these questions are questions we all struggle with at some time. The conversation they provide is a valuable one. So, be warned. If you send me a unique question via email, there is a strong chance I will answer it here. (I will edit the details to protect the privacy of the sender and make it as anonymous as possible.)
So, here it goes. I recently received the following question:
My wife has a job opportunity about three hours from the metro area where we currently live. Obviously, if she took the job we would need to relocate. The city we are moving to is considerably smaller. The position she would be taking would require her to really be a part of that community. I’m not opposed to the moving but since the majority of my wedding business is in the city we currently live, and I like to meet with couples before booking & during the process (not to mention engagement sessions and the like,) I’m just wondering how you handle these things since I know a large percentage of your business you travel for. I’m guessing Skype would be my friend since traveling six hours round-trip for a potential client meeting is fairly unrealistic, but I’m worried it would take the “me-ness” out of my process. I worry if I lose that will I lose the clients? Since I do quite a few out-of-state weddings, I’m familiar with the ideas behind working with couples remotely but maybe my main concern is that I really LOVE meeting with and getting to know my clients. This seems like it would rob one of my favorite aspects of being a wedding photographer.
Anyway. Sorry, at this point I’m rambling but I’d love to hear your thoughts on your experience.
I can fully relate to your question! I am a firm believer that there is a perfect photographer for each couple. A large percentage of that is based on personality. Anyone that frequents photography forums, hears over and over photographers moaning about they met with a couple that didn’t book them. My answer is “GOOD!” Photography is a two way street. Your awareness of this puts you way ahead of the game.
One cannot underestimate the power of referrals. I live in a very small town (population 1,500.) I am lucky that where I live is a very popular location for destination weddings. It was the couples that traveled to where I live to get married that jump started my destination photography. It sounds like you have a very strong fan base that loves your work. You are in great shape. They should be by far your number one source of new work. When I first started out as a photographer, I built my business on one simple premise – create killer photography and even stronger customer service. It is a good way to live life. It is my continual mission for my business.
Meeting and talking with couples about their wedding is always fun. It is something I truly enjoy. I am guessing your personality comes through well before the first meeting through your images and communications. If you want to focus on destination weddings, my belief is these areas need to be amplified.
Does your website and every bit of communication reflect you completely to your core?
There are a lot of couples that hire me after a couple emails without ever talking on the phone or meeting. If in the very first email a couple gushes about the personality of your imagery, chances are they are an excellent fit. Before we go too far, I don’t recommend this for every couple nor every photographer! If any red flags go up, put on the breaks. Follow-up with a short list of questions about their wedding and photography. Ask for a time to chat on the phone or Skype.
Don’t underestimate small towns and surrounding communities. If you move, serving the couples you have booked will require travel. Coordinating engagement sessions, meeting times, etc. around weekends you will already be in town helps a ton manage travel. As you move forward don’t underestimate the sophistication of small town weddings. Wonderful people wanting creative photography happens everywhere.
I cringe when I hear photographers say you need to develop your style and then go into some obscure conversation usually revolving around how their images and style are so awesome. Developing a style where your images are easily recognized as your own is a difficult task that is constantly evolving. It takes time, practice, failure, persistence, experience and hard work. That said, the more one can do to show consistent work that you enjoy creating and embraces your personality the better.
I possibly take a little different approach to destination weddings. I personally would have no issue photographing all my weddings locally. My biggest concern is finding couples that enjoy my work as much as I do creating it. Where they live is secondary. No matter where one photographs one needs to ask, “What about my work and personality would make someone hire me over other photographers?” With destination photography we have to throw one more variable in the mix. “Why would someone pay to have you travel to their wedding?” From my experience, the more you can differentiate yourself the easier that answer becomes.
These are easy concepts to grasp, but much harder to put into practice. My best advice though is to celebrate what makes you and your photography you. Show images that say “This is me!” Don’t be afraid of different or edgy if it is true to who you are. Use honest open verbiage in all your client materials. I firmly believe success will find you if you do these things.
Do you have filters that will turn away couples that are a bad fit?
With the fear of sounding like that person who goes on and on about their own work instead of focusing on providing meaningful information, the image above was one of the scariest images I ever shared on my blog. It wasn’t exactly your normal engagement image. It was an image I really enjoyed, but I was afraid others would hate it. In the end, some people did truly hate it. Those who loved it were my couples. (It was even knocked off a couple of times by other photographers. One knock off appeared in an ad in numerous photography trade magazines.) I booked a number of weddings from this single image that opened up possibilities for me to take more risks.
Biff Ulm – VADA Photography
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